by Nicole
Mick Jagger sang it: “You can’t always get what you want.” But it seems you’ll be a lot better off if you want what you’ve got.
I recently read a study that claimed the happiest people aren’t necessarily the richest, thinnest or even most popular. These researchers found that the happiest people are–wait for it–the most grateful. Sure, I thought, if I were happy all the time, I’d be grateful too. But that’s not the case: these folks are happy because they’re grateful. In other words, the gratitude came first and happiness followed. Go figure.
It’s an oddly simple idea, and one I’ve been using on my children for years without even realizing it. Whenever they’re agitating for the newest, better, more expensive toy or gadget, I remind them to take a moment to be grateful for what they have. Of course, the message often goes unheeded, but there’s a nugget of wisdom in there that I can certainly use. (more…)




